I love DigsBy but there are three annoying behaviors that could be solved with.... just a few more options :)

1) In popup mode and an IM from person I didn't have a conversation going with comes in, it pops up and takes focus and whatever I was typing starts streaming into the popped up IM window..

I've not found a way to stop it from taking focus - even when turning off "Popup"

The number of times I have almost posted code or a part of an email I am typing to Twitter is quite astounding. I'm removing the Google Talk and MSN accounts and going back to native. I'm still using Digsby to monitor Twitter, Facebook and half a dozen email accounts.  I've been using Twitter via Google Talk and its amazing how much faster the messages come through via Google Talk I'm hoping that's just down to polling speed and not Twitter API issues :)

2) The flashing of the application toolbar icon.

I want to be able to tell it to not flash on every message source. I don't want to know that I have gotten 10 messages from Twitter or ThumbWhere. I want to know if a coworker messages me.

3) I run it at home and at work - and I don't want the same behavior in both environments. These ones should be machine specific as they are specific to the hardware.